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  • Stop comparing your own life to other people lives.

    Many people have the tendency to compare the low points of their own lives with the high points of other people lives.Remember that no matter how perfect somebody’s life may seem , behind closed doors . Everybody deals with tragedy, insecurity ,and other difficulties .

    It’s true that, comparing your life with others is always a losing proposition because there will always be people who appear to be better off than you and seemingly live the perfect life . After all, we always compare the worst of, what we know about ourselves to the best assumptions that we make about others .

    Just remind, comparisons others result in resentment towards others and towards ourselves ,and also deprive us of joy . , comparing ourselves to other often leaves us feeling frustrated, anxious, and paralyzed about moving forward.it doesn’t help one single bit in creating the life we want. Instead, it just takes away valuable time and energy that could have been spent on building our future.

    If you need to compare yourself with someone, compare yourself with you.what can i do to improve your life quality ? How can you be nicer to yourself than you were yesterday ? You are only person you can compare yourself with.

    When we focus on other people, we loose time that, we could otherwise invest in ourselves .we don’t grow green grass by focusing on our neighbour’s garden . We don’t it nurturing our own, so instead of wasting time comparing your path to someone else’s. Spend it investing for your own.

    Stop comparing your life with others .

    If you want to feel accomplished and happy .you will have to value your life for its own sake . And sure stop comparing yourself to others .


    In order to be truly successful in life , you need to stand by your care values, which define your own individuals ,which define your own individuality , sometimes you may think, that you have thrown the opportunity to be successful way on the principle, Even you start doubting your competencies when going gets tough . However , you should respect your decision, and always be true’ to yourselves. You should not try to duplicate a successful person.your own to succeed has the capabilities to re-invent the measures by which you can succeed.

    Further , always keep in mind , nobody is perfect, nobody is flawless.that is why, it is the matter of how you perceive and carry YOURSELVES.set the tone for success in life.

    You shouldn’t try to compare YOURSELVES with others , because you always find someone better than you in certain aspects of life , and that in turn generate negativity in yourselves .in fact comparison is the root cause of doubting one’s capabilities and losing individuality. So the moment you feel incompetent about yourselves, you should remember that as the nature of life. The ultimate potential for everyone is the same.

    Everyone has their own positive and negative aspects of life.if you find someone better than you in some sets of skills, you should also keep in mind ,that you are better in other skills.

    Hence, you should believe that, you are as good as anyone else in your chosen field. Even if you are criticized by people who doubted your competencies, do not hold any kind of grudge against them. Grudges will only pull you down. BE YOURSELF AND MOVE FORWARD CONFIDENTLY.

    The right situation will come when you start succeeding in your chosen field and people appreciate you for that, success is enjoyed by those people ,who don’t compromise with their values.what is the sense of those successes, which is not achieved by keeping your head high ? Sometimes, may be going gets tough by being yourselves. However, always remember, you have to start small and keep at it .

    Don’t give up. Over the period of time you are definitely going to make it big and enjoying it also by expressing yourselves confidently and striving to move forward all the Time.


    Living your best life is a sign of true success in life, it brings out all that is best out of you and raises the level of inner satisfaction.competing with yourselves, helps you to live your best life as it drives you to be a better person than you were yesterday.

    However, you should make use to competition , judiciously otherwise it effects you badly.

    There is nothing wrong as such in competition in itself. The problem begins only when you ,start competing with others, which either limit your capability up to the level of that person, or you Harbor negetive emotions . When you find someone better than you .

    No doubt, we are taught to compete with others in every aspect of life be it education, sports, jobs or business. This competing spirit has been a major driving force in our life. sometimes it helps us to achieve our desired goal earlier by increasing our level of efficiency but most of the time ruins our peace of mind.

    The trouble with competing against other is that you will always find someone better than you in certain aspects of life ,and this leads you Harbor negative emotions such as jealously, to compete with yourselves and raise your level of performance everyday.

    Hence, you should strive to compete with yourselves,if you want achieve true success in life .

    Everyone is unique in their own aspect.No two persons can have equally the same talent. So it is not wise to compete with others by doing so ,you will lose your own unique individuality and a sense of self- respect . That is why competing with yourselves is a best way to make your life truly successful.

    Set your goal and strive to achieve that smoothly and early by raising your efficiency everyday with the help of competing against yourselves and that in turn lead you to have best life and a sense of true success.

    Life can be compilation , but the race that you face doesn’t have to be against anybody else . A better way to refocus your efforts and harness compilation is to look in the mirror and learn how to complete with yourself.


    “what you Think You Become.” Believe it or not. The law of attraction isn’t a complicated magic. Requires initiation into an ancient, mystery or secret order.

    Just saying that ,like attracts like. Like migrates towards like.

    In short, what you send out is what you get back.your frequency determines the reality you will experience . Your vibration of being activates the law of attraction in a specific way, making the things in your life appear a certain way. As a reflection of what you ” send out .”

    Hence, physical life– circumstances are like a mirror, reflecting you . You can change the reflection in the mirror without changing yourself. This is the key you really need to understand before you can use the law of attraction positively and deliberately .

    Simple put, the law of attraction is the ability to attract into our lives whatever we are focusing on .it is believed that regardless of age , nationality or religious belief.

    We are all susceptible to the laws which govern the universe, including the law of attraction. It is the law of attraction which uses the power of the mind to translate, whatever is in our thoughts and materialize them into reality.

    IN besic terms, all thoughts turn into things eventually. If you focus on negetive doom and gloom. You will remain under cloud. If you focus on positive thoughts and have goals ,that you aim to achieve you will find a way to achieve them with massive beautiful place.

    The law of attraction dictates that whatever can be imagined and held in the mind eye is achievable. If you take action on a plan . To get to where you want to be.

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    Life is too short . So ENJOY it . Success comes when people Value you .if you are not valued, you are not respected.if you are not respected you are not a success .

    MAKE Your Failure as a stepping stone Towards success . FAILURE and struggle go hand in hand. Everyone wants to achieve success in every sphere in life. However, without being encountered with failure, no one has ever achieved any Extraordinary success in life.

    Failure comes on the way to success for a reason.is not only let the person understand ,how they cannot achieve success in life but also motivate them to explore other options learn the requisite lesson from it and remain eager to move forward in life.

    Life is a journey.to put to more simply, failure is inevitable in life’s journey. No matter, how much calculated your plans are .you are bound to face failure sometimes in life.it is a part of journey towards the realisation of bigger goal in life. Above al failure also play an important role in life.your level of motivation and courage to tackle the situations is measured from the face of failure.

    Further , failure could be your friend or foe. It depend entirely upon yourself, how you perceive them, There are commonly two choices left while being encountered with failure .

    The first one is to view failure as a foe and give of Idea of achieving your goal , and the second option is to see ,it as a friend, invest some time to learn necessary lessons from it , mend your way a little not to repeat the same mistakes again and start following your dream with the more positive approach.

    Hence, failure is meant to help you to find success in life . Whenever you face failures in life, learn the required lessons from it and step ahead to the realisation of goal. With each each failure. You are bound to be wiser and mentally stringer . So do not be the victim of failure and give up the Idea of achieving your goal .

    Convert failure into success by following your Goal with the more positive approach , because failure has already increased your knowledge and strengthen your courage .


    Convert Failure Into Success .


    Life is just a minute — only sixty seconds init . Forced upon you can’t refuse it . But it’s up to you to use it. you must suffer if you lose it. Give an account if you abuse it . Ju St a tiny, little minute , BUT eternity is in it .

    Just saying that , “TIME AND TIDE WAIT FOR NON . which Explains the importance of valuing time . it’s True , TIME passes and does not wait for it anybody .so we must make the best use of time in our life.

    Successful people have never wasted time. They can lose money, but they can’t lose time . One can make money, but with money, one can’t get time . Time is the most important ingredient in the recipe of success to people ,who have succeeded .YES , successful people never, ever waste even a minute. They know how to multitask , They know how to delegate . They know how to make the best use of time in their life. What do you do with your time ? How do you manage your time ? Do you have a plan ? DO you make the best use of every minute ? If you do except success to knock at your soon .

    TO Value your time , which is your most precious asset.

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    If you want to reach the peak of success in life, you have to have self–confidence.you take to have self confidence .

    Self confidence is important for many reasons first and foremost when you’re self confidence, it means you believe in yourself. You have full faith in your abilities and in your decision making skills . perfectly true! Confidence is a key to success. If you have oodles of self–confidence ,you can face any situation in life .

    Do you know ? Lack of confidence can paralyze your life .it can prevent you from doing great things, just because you don’t believe in yourself and can turn you into your own enemy . Lack of confidence doesn’t only have a devastating effect on your mind but is also responsible for the way other people treat you .

    Your mind and your emotions are the tools required for developing, yourself confidence , and they always remain with you it is your mind that, can eliminate negetive emotions like fear and shyness and put you on a track on which you will continue for the rest of your life .

    First ,you need to see yourself in a positive light, Only then will other people see you in the same way . when you have confidence of yourself. You will earn the confidence of others and command their respect mostly , your thoughts ,only are responsible for your low self confidence,the right way to tackle this problem is to win over negative thoughts with positive thinking. This is a sure shot method for building and governing your self – confidence.

    Confidence based only on your thought patterns . Nagetive thoughts invariable lead to negative or even unlawful actions . Whereas positive thinking leads to positive actions. Your positive actions your positive actions will lead to more positive thinking and results in more positive actions. Both positive and negative thinking are ongoing behavioral patterns. But when you are able to develop a positive mindset, you exude confidence and are well on your way to success .the key to developing yourself – confidence is to start small .If you begin by doing big things to develop yourself – confidence and fail it can have a big negative outcome. So take small step in the beginning ,so that even if you fall you don’t get hurt too much .

    Do not make mistake of developing your self-confidence by yourself . Surround yourself with people, who support you and will provide encouragement, when things get tough and you start feeling low .

    Firm decision that you will not quite till you develop yourself-confidence to the levels you desire, no matter how tough things get and how long it’s take .

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    Why I say train your brain ? Do you know ??

    Your mind is one of the most powerful tools .that can helps you achieve, what ever you want in life. However , it like a double edeed sword . If you use it wisely, your mind can solve the most pressing problem and make you successful . On the contrary if you don’t know ,how to control or manage, it well ,it can go against you .

    That’s like, we all program our computers , mobiles and gadgets , but how many of us program our mind ? This is secret towards success , which States that you can program your mind to success ?

    Just know that ,the mind is also device that needs to be programmed . It works depending on how we program it .

    Remind that, if you program your mind to be Negetive , fearful and hesitant. Your mind will function that way, however if you program your mind to think with faith and hope . Built a master mind. Obviously , your mind will function in a way that you will achieve success . that’s why I say to you train your brain towards success .if you agree with me follow my guide .

    One great method to train your mind for success is to be present, in other words you need to practice mindfulness .it can be pretty simple. You just focused by paying attention to your thoughts without any judgement .

    If you practicing mindfulness ,each day can heighten, your attention , improves ,your focus, and make you more productive .

    Choose complex activities. It’s need, Meditation– it’s very common these days and it works, just like being mindful of what is happening around you . it’s sure good impact to your life and train your mind for higher success .just practice every morning spend about 10 to 15 minutes for meditation . infact, many highly successful people like Steve jobs, Oprah Winfrey,and Ray Dalio practice meditation regular .

    The you sure train your mind is through PHYSICAL EXERCISE . There is no doubt that exercise brings a lot of benefits. Including both physically and mentally . it’s also train your mind towards success .

    Do something challenging, whatever you do to brain, it should be challenging and take you beyond your comfort zone .but practice constantly, you know ,the saying practice makes perfect .

    Dr Morris says,” you can improve memory if you don’t work at it .the more time you devote to engaging your brain , the more it benifits .”

    Do not let your mind float like a piece of paper in the wind . Work hard to keep it focused at all times , when doing a task ,think of nothing else . When walking to work count the steps that it takes to get all the way to the office. This is not easy, but your mind will soon understand . Mind must eventually become as still as a candle in a corner , where there is no draft .

    Inhance your will power . Train your brain towards success and see the success in every situation .


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    DO you focus on solutions OR do you focus on Problems ? WELL

    Everybody has problems, Who Doesn’t ?the difference is that, successful people don’t focus on the problems ,instead they focus on the solutions. Do you know why ??

    When you focus on Problems, will get more problems.it gives you back ,the control over your life and lets you resolve the troubles .

    If you were to dwell too long in the problem stage ? You might get more and more depressed about a situation. This creates an unresourceful state ,that doesn’t help in solving problems and the problems all the sudden get bigger and bigger.it then becomes so big that some people just resign to their fate and accept the problems to be part of their lives .

    Just remember that, what you focus on expands .if you focus on Problems, you will get more problems. If you focus on salutations, you will get more solutions. Choice is yours


    Once you fail, if you keep on rehearsing the problem. You repeat the problem.AT Times people, who have failed let the problem, occupy their mind and life .

    Those who want to succeed understand and analyze the problem and focus on solutions. This is to way to succeed and live.

    Do not let your problem blow up like a balloon and then make it look so big.That it looks impossible to solve yes,

    Keep your problems in proper perspective and then don’t focus on them instead, focus on the solutions .

    Those who focus on the solutions get them,and They are on their way to success .


    Do you know, why don’t we succeed in life , because we don’t think that, we can succeed and we don’t believe in the power of of ourselves . Have you ever thought, ” what would happen, if birds thought, that they cannot fly ? You would have millions of birds on Earth, flapping their wings but staying on the ground, yes it’s true that birds can fly, because they think they can. Hence, young birds open their wings and they discover flight. They Are up in the Air enjoying the Breeze and the trees.

    But the same way, successful people started achieving success just because, they thought they could, They wanted to succeed, there was a compelling reason for them to achieve success .which acts as a fuel to take into success orbit.

    But un successful people tend to say things like’ i’ am just not good with numbers.” ” I just don’t think ,i can run a successful business.They put limits on themselves and excuse. Their behaviour. But it’s really just a way of underachieving and aiming low enough to not miss.

    Just my suggestion to all,if you really want to success, look at your complelling reason.Either the reason must be compelling enough to make you move, because success doesn’t happen to anybody and everybody.it happiness to those, who really want to succeed. The ones who really have a reason for wanting that , Magic called success.

    Start thinking ” you can ” . open your wings, you too have the power to fly.

    Start thinking, now that, you can. Then success will follow.



    Become your own cheerleader ! Improve your performance in your work ,or in any other area requiring skill or ability. Continually repeat the words ,”

    ” i am the best , I’m the best , I’m the best ! ” By talking to yourself as if you were already the person you want to be sometimes in the future , you become your own cheerleader ,you will then find yourself doing better at whatever you attempt.

    Another powerful affirmation you can repeat every morning before you start off is ,”i love my work ! Sometimes when you wake up in the morning ,you won’t feel particularly excited about the coming day . But you can take control over your mind and emotions by repeating,” i love my work, ” until it actually feels true.

    Even better , you can start every day with the words ,” i like myself and i love my work ! This affirmation, repeated enthusiastically several times, every morning ,will rev you up and get you excited about getting to your job .

    Do you know , positive affirmations to attract success. If you want to see a miracle and boost your confidence , Repeat after me , I am my own superhero. With my brain, I am able to achieve miracle. That’ll change your way you think.


    ” IF you feel anxiety or depression , you are not in the present. You are either anxiously projecting the future or depressed and stuck in the past.the only thing you have any control over is the present moment, simple breathing exercises can make us calm and present instantly.” Tobe Hanson.

    Being present and exerting our ability to be mindful not only makes you happier, it can also help us deal with pain more effectively, reduce our stress and decrease it’s impact on our health, and improve our ability to cope with negative emotions like fear and enger .

    Do you know ,being present also improves your focus and allows you to better tune out possible interruption or distractions in your surroundings.

    If you focus on the present , your life will be constantly renewed. The present moment is the only time that is eternal.it never dies ,nor can it be forgotten. Therefore, happiness in the present can never be taken away from ,you it will free you from the snare of time, which brings about suffering through thought , evaluation ,and analysis Being fully in the present ,you experience the timeless ,in the timeless ,you find your true self .

    Being present in your life actually males you happier, healthier human being. As it leads to better moods ,more energy ,less emotional exhaustion in the work place. Mindfulness allows you to better regulate your emotions ,as we as practice gratitude and empathy.

    When you think about in the moment as an act to being mindful ,you put yourself in complete control of your own experience.

    Finally being present in the moments equips you with the tools to distinguish between what is truly important and what is not .



    “Excuses are the nails used to build the house of failure.” Jim Rohn. One of the most prevalent habits among the youths in their penchant for excuses. Some make excuses as if their lives depend on it .until you cultivate the habit of living above your excuses. You will continue to live an inferior life ,we really start to live ,the moment we develop the strength that is stronger than our excuses. So many people ,by rejecting and excusing themselves out of any opportunity to grow. It is easier to go from failure to success than it is from excuses to success .

    It’s sure Excuses that are holding you Back . Just we wish to continue growing in our lives is normal yet our excuses for why , we shouldn’t try in what stops us from taking action . Whether you’re attempting to look for a new job or hoping the goals you have for you begin to from in your head as quickly as the reasons for why you can’t pursue them. The culture of accepting excuses as reality is here. In previous generations, people were held accountable for making excuses for their behaviour or decisions.

    ” Quite the excuses to live a life you want . (Anonymous)

    Just mind it ,Dani Johnson said ,” Excuses are well planned lies “. When you make your excuses ,ask yourself this ,what can I do to improve.? Be honest with yourself about ,what you can do better .

    Life changes for the better when you take action instead of making excuses .” (ATGW

    Sound familiar ?? We have all spit out excuses in the attempt to save face and shipt blame ,even if we know better. But every now and then ,you run across those situations. When you feel like added clarification is absolutely justifiable . However , you’d like to provide that necessary context in a way that doesn’t make it sound like you’re offering a flat out alibi.

    MarkRebul said,” success occurs, when your dreams get bigger than your excuses. “. If you are an entrepreneur realise that , people don’t pay for excuses.people pay for service. You can make excuses or you can make progress. The choice is yours.

    Once you realise that you are the only one holding yourself back , you’ll stop making changes. Nobody owes you anything . You will have to earn it.there are no failure in life,only excuses. .

    Make an effort ,not an excuse ( Anonymous )


    Stress is a normal part of morden life , but if you’re often faced with stressful situations and feel panicked or overwhelmed trying to deal with them..you may benifit from learning some coping strategies that can help you to keep calm .

    First of all just know about, what is stress ? Stress is a result of thoughts that keep you unhappy . Chronic stress harms health and increases your risk of health conditions ,such as heart disease, anxiety disorders and depression .

    While you work, you experience, there is tension, anxiety ,fear, hankering , aversion greed. All these negative emotions are present in the mind. They are impacting us and together are creating stress. But our stressful response is the one that causes problems , difficult. Stress is our emotional personality, when we encounter the external world. When stressful situations are always there in the world. But our stressful response is the one that causes problems. Difficult situations will always be there in the world. Don’t expect a world free from difficulties. Just practice Relaxation Techniques .

    Just follow some ways which help you live a stress-free life .(1) Never be afraid of problems. (2) Don’t take yourself too seriously.( 3) Stop living only in the past and the future. Get present in the moment (4)stop focusing on what you Don’t have insted of what you have . (5) focus on the positives. (6) Take a deep Breath. If you’re faced with a stressful situation , where you can’t leave, you can calm yourself down by practicing breathing exercises. Breathing technique is an effective way to boost oxygen levels in your body . Sure your brain will be more focused on breathing rather than the stressful situations .


  • Stay strong during tough Times.

    Everyone wants to be successful in life. Sometimes life gets so hard that we don’t know how we’ll possibly manage to stay strong in the face of what’s happening . From dealing with global crises to personal tragedies. These tactics will help you find your inner strength.

    But remind that , it can’t rain all the Time and the sun will come out tomorrow. The heard part though ,is knowing how to stay strong until the Strom passes . And mind it tough times come and go as per the law of nature, it’s not going to stay with you forever. So you need to give up without putting up your effort as per your potential.

    Mentally strong people know they need to stay flexible. They’re open to changing their cognitive , emotional and behavioral patterns to adapt to new challenges they face . They practice gratitude and they ignore pain .they certainly acknowledge their emotional wounds.they also remind themselves of all the good things in life and resources ,they have to manage the though times .

    Mind it , Everyone has the ability to cope with the obstacles.it is just the matter developing inner strength , where most of the people falter. It is very easy to crack under pressure , stop following dream and shift the blame on the other persons or situation for your inability to cope with the obstacles on the path of success. . To stay strong in tough times. You first need to keep in mind that it is a part of life and comes in Everyone’s life in different forms and level of intensity. So do not take it personally.

    Are you going through tough times in your life ???

    If you need some help with that , read on for a few strategies to use . How to stay strong tough times — (1) accept that some situation beyond your control .(2) Allow yourself time to grieve and feel all the feelings.(3) Never be afraid to ask for help. (4) take joy where life officers it. Reframe your negative thought .

    Just mind it ,when going though times in life . Maintaining a good mindset will allow you to stay upbeat and turn the situation around. Practice gratitude, learn from the past ,live in the moment , prepare for the future. Don’t live for tomorrow , either prepare for it.but don’t count on it remember tomorrow is not promised. Once you’ve given the past and the future their due consideration ,pull yourself back into the present. The hardest thing about finding your strength is that you only really discover it through tough times.sure you can build yourself up ahead of time and prepare to stay strong ,but we can only find out it our strategies work, when our strength is truly tested .kind of like . Don’t say I can’t possibly stand another week stuck inside, turn it around to I’ve managed to embrace being alone for a month now I’m still standing .

    Just need gather your inner strength .

    Stay strong during tough times .



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